Comments on: 5 Easy Steps To Increase Your Response-Ability http://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/ Personal journey, development and life planning Thu, 19 Jan 2012 04:20:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Debbiehttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-741 Debbie Thu, 25 Feb 2010 20:22:49 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-741 Hi Beat,This is a great post. Do you realize what this world would be like if everyone took responsibility for there actions and stopped blaming. I still haven't figured out what God was doing when he give out egos? He must have said, "Lego's" and everyone took him wrong and grabbed the wrong material.I believe that the only reason there is this blame game going around is because of the ego. If people would learn to take responsibility there circumstances would most likely improve.Debbie Hi Beat,

This is a great post. Do you realize what this world would be like if everyone took responsibility for there actions and stopped blaming. I still haven't figured out what God was doing when he give out egos? He must have said, "Lego's" and everyone took him wrong and grabbed the wrong material.

I believe that the only reason there is this blame game going around is because of the ego. If people would learn to take responsibility there circumstances would most likely improve.

Debbie

]]> By: Andrew @ Manager Skillhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-736 Andrew @ Manager Skill Wed, 24 Feb 2010 09:20:49 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-736 True - I did and love every minute of it.Andrew True - I did and love every minute of it.

Andrew

]]> By: adminhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-734 admin Wed, 24 Feb 2010 02:14:05 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-734 Tom, we're in the company of great minds. Need proof? Here's how George Bernard Shaw said it: "People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them." - Right on! Beat Tom, we're in the company of great minds. Need proof? Here's how George Bernard Shaw said it: "People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them." - Right on! Beat

]]> By: Tomhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-733 Tom Wed, 24 Feb 2010 01:46:58 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-733 Beat, Step 3 is my absolute favorite. There is so much to blame, people, circumstances, and yet it is not helping a bit. And it is so easy to blame something or somebody for your failure. But I guess blaming is almost like feeling sorry, just to prolong what went wrong instead of turning it around. I heard so many time that: "you are the only one to blame". While it could be true, it is just a nicer spin on something just as useless. I might be the one to blame, but how much better it is to learn a lesson instead and move on. Beat,
Step 3 is my absolute favorite. There is so much to blame, people, circumstances, and yet it is not helping a bit. And it is so easy to blame something or somebody for your failure. But I guess blaming is almost like feeling sorry, just to prolong what went wrong instead of turning it around.
I heard so many time that: "you are the only one to blame". While it could be true, it is just a nicer spin on something just as useless. I might be the one to blame, but how much better it is to learn a lesson instead and move on.

]]> By: adminhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-731 admin Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:39:30 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-731 Lisa, thanks for the kind words! Totally agree with positive breeds positive. One way of looking at it, everything in the universe is energy, and states of consciousness/emotions are no exception. So it comes down to, what would you rather have, high energy or low energy? Surprisingly or not, low energy is a very popular choice, too. Cheers, Beat Lisa, thanks for the kind words! Totally agree with positive breeds positive. One way of looking at it, everything in the universe is energy, and states of consciousness/emotions are no exception. So it comes down to, what would you rather have, high energy or low energy? Surprisingly or not, low energy is a very popular choice, too. Cheers, Beat

]]> By: Cheryl from thatgirlisfunnyhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-730 Cheryl from thatgirlisfunny Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:24:16 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-730 You're welcome! I'm glad we're getting to know you. You're welcome! I'm glad we're getting to know you.

]]> By: adminhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-729 admin Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:23:17 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-729 Hi Corinee, I so agree with "they don’t even know it most of the time" ... for having been-there-done-that myself for oh so long. Reminds me of 3D images - those who see, do, those who don't, don't :-) Beat Hi Corinee, I so agree with "they don’t even know it most of the time" ... for having been-there-done-that myself for oh so long. Reminds me of 3D images - those who see, do, those who don't, don't :-) Beat

]]> By: adminhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-728 admin Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:19:47 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-728 Hi Mitch, I know what you mean (re printing it out). Sometimes I write stuff for my readers only to find out I really wrote it for me. Seen from this angle, the teacher learns more than the student. Life's beautiful :-) Beat Hi Mitch, I know what you mean (re printing it out). Sometimes I write stuff for my readers only to find out I really wrote it for me. Seen from this angle, the teacher learns more than the student. Life's beautiful :-) Beat

]]> By: adminhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-727 admin Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:17:03 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-727 Birney, we agree, plus, isn't it also true that making the best of life is easier when it is seen as a gift rather than an obligation? Beat Birney, we agree, plus, isn't it also true that making the best of life is easier when it is seen as a gift rather than an obligation? Beat

]]> By: adminhttp://www.beatschindler.com/5-steps-response-ability/comment-page-1/#comment-726 admin Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:12:44 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/?p=2832#comment-726 Hi Keller, thanks for stopping by and for your comment. What we believe is going to come from a situation determines what we go after and what we hold back from. In a society that rewards victims [financially] as does ours - remember the one who won a settlement over a most vicious "attack" by a cup of coffee? - little wonder so many go after being victims. The ones who wake up one day realizing how destructive it is are the lucky ones, so it's important to keep saying it. Cheers, Beat Hi Keller, thanks for stopping by and for your comment. What we believe is going to come from a situation determines what we go after and what we hold back from. In a society that rewards victims [financially] as does ours - remember the one who won a settlement over a most vicious "attack" by a cup of coffee? - little wonder so many go after being victims. The ones who wake up one day realizing how destructive it is are the lucky ones, so it's important to keep saying it. Cheers, Beat

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